'You're younger than us, so you should stand': Two Karens intimidate a disabled girl on an overbooked bus; compassionate conductor moves her up to First Class

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    Font - Posted by u/Ladylottington72 6 hours ago 4 You want me to move out of my seat because I'm younger than you? Ok! LOC
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    Font - So I've (28F) just been in North Wales to see my family for a week. As I live and work in London, I booked my train from Bangor to Euston days in advance, making sure I had a seat reserved. My mom drove
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    Font - me and my cat (in her carrier) the hour drive to the station, and waved us off. As getting a cat carrier, a suitcase and a stuffed tote bag is quite a challenge, once I
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    Font - scouted out my seat reserved from Bangor, I quickly plonk myself down, my cat carrier on my lap, my tote and suitcase squished against my legs, so if someone sat next to me, they had their leg space.
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    Font - At the next stop, an elderly woman asked if anyone was sitting by me, to which I replied not at the moment, and as long as she doesn't mind the cat. She said she
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    Font - wasn't fazed by this and sat down. We made small talk then I went back to window watching. The train was filling up at this point, and it was clear that the journey had been overbooked.
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    Font - The next station comes, and 2 middle aged women get on. They start looking at their tickets and their one seat is the aisle seat over, whilst the other is where the elderly woman is sitting next to me. They start
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    Font - loudly discussing someone being in their booked seat from Station C, and looking directly at me and drawing the attention of the carriage. One thing to note is that I have a seizure disorder. I have a
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    Font - disabled persons railcard and I wear a lanyard that says "please offer me a seat" which I only use this on long journeys or if I'm feeling a wee bit wobbly that day. The conversation went as so;
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    Font - MAW (Middle Aged Women) 1: You need to move, you're in my seat Me: Hi, no - I'm in the one next to yours, the one from Station A (At this point I'm trying to be diplomatic about the fact that
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    Font - it's in fact the elderly woman occupying their seat, but she seems oblivious) MAW 2: No, you're in the one from Station C, that's my friend's seat, and I'm the one on this side of the aisle, where this man is
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    Font - (The man has got up to move, but looks worriedly at me and my lanyard) Me: I moved over to this seat from the one next to me here, but I got on at Station A, where this train was booked from. I
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    Font - don't mind moving, but I need to ask the conductor where I can sit MAW 1: Yes, well, you're younger than us, so you should really stand up anyway shouldn't you
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    Font - MAW 2: yes, she should really get up Me: Um, well I actually need to sit because I have a seizure disorder-
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    Font - MAW 1: Ugh, don't we ALL have something these days? The Elderly Woman (points at my lanyard): I don't think she's lying
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    Font - (The MAWs see this and look a mixture of annoyed and embarrassed) MAW 1: Well you can't stay here. Conductor! She's in my seat!
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    Font - At this point, my cat is meowing like crazy - she isn't an official seizure awareness pet, but she picks up on my stress levels and I think this may have added to her sudden behaviour change, as she was
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    Font - previously asleep. The MAWs are telling the conductor I should move out of the seat as I am younger. I try to explain to the conductor that I'm happy to move but I just need to sit somewhere if possible.
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    Font - The conductor cuts off the MAWS, and asks me if I need help with my bags and if the cat is ok. I tell her she's picking up on my stress. I don't want her to carry my bags because
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    Font - they're heavy. The MAWs look smug as I'm removed from my seat and told to follow the conductor. I stumble along the staring eyes of the carriage like a naughty school kid,
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    Font - trying to keep my breathing steady. She opens the last door and guides me into the First Class coach. She tells me to take a seat, apologises for the situation, tells me I can sit here for the remaining 3 hours
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    Font - and offers me a bottle of water. I take it, stunned, and say I didn't book first class and I have a cat. She smiles and says she knows, and would I like a chocolate too?
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    Font - So yes, I am younger, but that doesn't mean that I should automatically all disabilities are visibly obvious, so don't be a pi.. k! stand, and not It ain't easy being seizey... but sometimes it pays off!
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    Font - TLDR; 2 middle aged women were adamant that I should be standing on a train journey as I am younger, despite the fact that I tell them I have a seizure disorder, have a seat booked, wear a disability lanyard and have a disabled railcard. The conductor therefore moves me into first class seating.
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    Font - FliptrickBento 5 hr. ago Sorry you had to go through that, young people with invisible disabilities and entitled older people don't tend to mix well on public transport.
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    Font - riobhcas 6 hr. ago edited 3 hr. ago · "It ain't easy being seizey" hah! Thanks for sharing the story. Glad you and the cat are all okay.
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    Organism - warple-still +1.6 hr. ago I hope your cat enjoyed first class :) ↑ Vote Reply Share Ladylottington 72 OP 6 hr. ago She is! She's just had some Lick-e- Lix and is now dozing in the sun
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    Facial expression - Andrew3236 · 1 hr. ago Cat tax is much overdue, don't make me call the baliffs.
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    Cat - Long overdue and requested cat tax;
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    Gas - & PRIORITY SEATING

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